A Gastronomic Potpourri

A Gastronomic Potpourri

Pasta and Pizza.
Bagel with schmears.

The best bec n biscuit we’ve tasted in years.
Eggplant Caponata with prosciuttos a pair.

Fava beans are marinated with Rosemary and Sage.
Soaking in flavors with love as they’re aged.

Try a ricotta cheese ball, add a garlic bread loaf.
This winning combo undoubtedly takes the troph.
Choose 3 of a kind or a plate filled with five.

With Italian wedding soup simmering and shrimps served with eyes.

Go ahead and sample, bring your taste buds alive.

The 15 bite hot dog is a site to behold.
The Brooklyns baked mac and cheese never grows old.

Sip a bellini -add some peach schnapps (who knew.)
Consummate Italian food, hailed
Fireman-the quintessential Bronx Jew.

Try sushi from Red Eye.
A fried artichoke or 3.
The chilean sea bass the best from the sea.

Now for the back tooth that begs for some sweets.
A Tartufo creation you won’t find on the streets.
Cookies and cheesecake wake the taste buds so strong.
In a booth along the wall is where you be belong.
They lead with hospitality it goes without saying.
The experience in one of Shellys stores, will have you on the ground praying.

Baruch Dayan Ha’emet

Baruch Dayan Ha’emet

Shelly Fireman- 212-308-8174

With Paul, Lenny and Murray kibitzing at the next table about how they met you and who knew you way back to the days of stick ball and Johnny on the Pony, the evening began. We walked into the Fireman Group’s splendid new venture. A beautifully appointed room, a stage setting for what looked like a grand scene from a Coppola movie. A staff of beautiful people appeared to be auditioning for a role in “Cafe Society ” a la Fireman. We marveled at how everything old is new again. The panoply of flowers and leather banquets combined with well shined brass and mirrors helped to create the setting. We comfortably nuzzled into our booth glanced at ourselves in the mirror, smoothed down the cowlick on our bangs and hung our hat.

Everything slowed down, albeit quickly came flooding through in thoughts.

I met Shelly Fireman in 1977. I walked down a few steps into the old Le Drugstore, the new Cafe Tartufo. I had an appointment to interview for a job. I was 27 years old and waiting for my real estate career to take off. I distinctly remember his buttonless denim shirt that flowed over his very cool looking jeans. It completed the picture in my mind of a well dressed beatnik. I was impressed. I thought ok Village Voice and Allen Ginsberg move over, I got this gig down. And so I was hired as his “assistant .” Little did I know this meant wearing lots of (hold on to your hats) and learning a whole new set of “Peas and Q’s.” I love food and the environment in which it is created. Still do, always will. So I bought a new pair of jeans and realized this was not a sit behind a desk as an assistant, just anywhere job.

I learned a lot about the hospitality business, in the “back of the store” way. The people I got to meet were foodies in every sense of the word. They cooked it, wrote about and designed the hardware to display the food. This is actually where the taste buds begin.

Shelly gave me a taste tester allowance as part of my job. I would go to other food shops and eat my way to a worthwhile review to present to him the next day. I also got to know the staff of sales people at the men’s dept. at Bonwit Tellers, very well. This was his go to store for even the simplest of cravats. If there is such a thing. Shelly’s creativity transcends to so much more than how to present a great bowl of pasta or who to hire to whip up the anchovy sauce for the mozzarella en carroza. Fritto misto

let’s try it with carrots. Ok, he would say, now add less sauce. As sybaritic pleasures go, great food and how it dances off the plate is way up there.

Fast forward 40 plus and I’m still holding on to my hat years later. I am still eating in his stores. Our friendship still real and long lived. Without a doubt his bride for the better part of his ride – Marilyn Fireman has held his attention, respect, devotion and love. She is his greatest success, his longest lasting pleasure and the prototype for the cherry on top of the Tartufo. Without her his tale would not have unfolded as the success story it is.

She is beautiful, talented and saint like in her patience. Brava Marilyn.

On Sept 7, 2001, Ira and I stood under the Chuppah on the

roof top of his 57th street restaurant, appropriately titled Shelly’s. This building housed the put a quarter in the little glass door and take your piece of cherry pie Automat style. Who doesn’t have an Automat story?

So a part of me feels possessive, as old friends often do. Not in like a claiming ownership way, but more of a I was there as the under belly of this empire was in its empirical stage. And ”you’ve come a long way baby.”

So my dear friend, with every morsel of good wishes shared, every memory of Gael Greene’s reviewing Fiorellos greatest pizza pie, (like her hats were ever a disguise)- every take- out order I brought out to Bill Berkeley to bring home to Marge and my thoughts will it make it home, every time you told me what a bad typist I was ( hello Apple where were you in the 70’s, I say Mangiare e Bene. Simchas biz hundert tzvanzig.

With a Song in Our Hearts.

Through the Years!

Front and Center- through the years- 

The Answer is Yes!

Can we have a play date?

Can you tie my sneakers?

I love cornichons- please just two more. 

Can we do an art project while we watch Sponge Bob?

Can we put on make-up and wear your high heels?

I think I will have pizza the kind that is square.

Can we go to the craft store and get chocolate croissants next door?

May I have some pretzels, the kind that are dark?

How much more time can I stay? 

Please call mom and ask for more time here-can I stay longer?

Please some more hummus to dip my carrots in.

It’s my sisters B-day, can We make her a card?

When we plant the terrace, can I plant watermelon seeds?😎

Next time get the yogurt with cookie crumbs on top. 

I think I will have french toast for dinner, I love it so much.

Can you make the water in the shower warmer? Please.

Ok, guys get ready it’s time to go home. 

Just five more minutes, it feels like we 

just got here.

I made this in school for Grandpa and you.

Look I got braces, they are purple and red. 

Can you come to hockey and watch me play?

I have ballet on Wednesday will you come to watch?

Can we build a lego, and we’ll leave it by you?—-

8 kids so close-to heart. We wish this on everyone. Bh

Our Own Henry Orient.

Climb high, climb far your goal the Sky your aim the Star. Unquote. Associated with Williams College.

Nora Johnson wrote one of our all time favorite movies -The World of Henry Orient- The story is loosely based on her very New York City schooled at Brearley, luncheoned at Romanoff’s, tea at The Plaza Hotel life. She lived until she was 84.

With financial indulgences galore by luck and emotional limitations in abundance as a by product of a divorced home she struggled to manage a balanced and well integrated life.

She had three marriages, several children and grandchildren and attained a great deal of success through her well received books. Her third, late in life relationship turned/marriage came when she was 71 with a man who was 84.

The net/net on their years together was best summed up by her. And I quote, He had said I was his last, loveliest adventure and he brought joy and magic to my life. He died when he was 91 and I was 78. Only then did I start to get old.

Attached is a blog I wrote on April 27, 2016 – The World of Henry Orient.

Our dream away movie starring Peter Sellers as an eccentric concert pianist and two young Brearley-esque ingenues who groupie their way around New York City.

My friends and I had a crush on well, the entire movie. The friendship between Val and Gil served as the prototype for our friendships and our shared tuna fish sandwiches with malteds stirred by long pretzels.

It was based on a book by Nora Johnson written in 1964. The movie directed by George Roy Hill extrapolated the medicinal value of gal pals.

My friends and I had our own Henry Orient in high school. Mr. Schmoltze, the Director of the all school musical, was our McDreamy. With luck, our earliest friendships have sustained throughout our lives and still touch us deeply. We have generationally embraced each other’s children and grandchildren. When we break at our mah jongg and canasta games we pass around new baby pics on our phones.

There is a treasured certainty in knowing we haven’t thrown each other out after all the tales of woe we’ve shared. Shout out to high maintenance friendships (HMF.)

We arrange flowers, paint a picture, create a collage or write a poem inserting a compilation of shared pictorials. Memories of borrowing clothes and trading pocketbooks soothe our soul’s.

Now we have added sharing medical advice followed by “we got you.” With certainty we know, we will never “Walk Alone.” Have a good Thursday.

Avinu Malkeinu

B’hatzlacha- (good luck)

5786 we’ll welcome you and pray for a fix.

With a new chance to shrug off the impossible and err on the side of the probable.

We’ll pray to continue our daily routines.

Filling in the blanks on the in-betweens.

With a fierce willingness to play by the rules.

We have the floor plan, we have the tools.

We’ll stay close to our nearest and dearest.

We will absorb the force of the familiar, never holding them at bay.

So let’s become the laureate of this new opportunity.

Make a difference in anyway we can.

Call on help when we need it.

United together-stronger we’ll stand. 🙏

Love’s what we’ll remember.

Ringo meditated his way into his “80’s.”

A relic, in the pantheon of Rock is how he Rolled.

The ever present thought of aging, rapidly taking its toll.

Rounding out numbers a blessing, yes privileged.

The progression our story at hand.

A series of Turkish soap operas, The Beauty Queen of Israel, and Fauda.

We marvel at the talent, the brand.

Moving slower as time moves more quickly.

Love watching the shows on Demand.

Our mistakes, our misfortunes our loses.

All mixed right into to the fold.

A lifetime of lessons through falling.

Getting up, while we brush off the story untold.

Reevaluation a constant envoy.

Of the people who get in our way.

Our inventory of “friends” going forward.

Positioned center stage on display.

Primordial lessons of kindness.

Comes, first second and third.

And so who will make you do push-ups?

In lieu of cheering you along.

Get rid of the the flies in your picnic

Hold tight to the words in your song. Amen!

L’shana tova tikatevu

Just do it now, is our motto as we are reflecting back on the year just lived.

Some days our get up and go is pro forma. Our time to make the donuts occurs in a knee jerk fashion. Some days our knee just jerks. Our Bubby Chicken, for those in the know, phrased the difficult times with “just look away mamala.”

Oh Bubby we believe now more then ever that your schmaltz, more than just a pinch of salt and sugar laden food added wisdom to your 95 years.

You didn’t exercise, but you never sat down. You worked the majority of your life and when you stopped formally working you worked at whatever you did. As you gathered your loved ones around the table, your emotional nutrition sustained us and your cooking created memories that still linger on. We talk about your baking as treasures.

Next week my old friend Linda from 5th grade is giving me a baking lesson. She is handing down a brownie recipe from her mother. L’dor V’dor.

After school when we would hang at her house her mother would treat us to her baked goods and a tall glass of milk.
I remember sharing stories with you about how Linda welcomed me into her group of friends. You taught me the expression “gutte neshema.”
She was my first one.

How lucky my sisters and cousins were to have Our Bubby Chicken. So at this time of year, as we look forward to a New Year, pray for forgiveness and remember our ancestors, why not exhume your Grandma, Grammy or Bubby memories. Hanging with her babies and watching them grow into themselves was her Pilates, her group therapy and our legacy. So Bub, here’s to our days gone by. We carry you in our hearts and tapping into your Sechel gives us reasons to believe, especially when we lose our way.

When we played musical chairs and the music stopped, you pulled over one extra chair so we all stayed in the game. And by the way we now spend more time “looking the other way” as we pull over one more chair. May your neshama have an Aliyah, Bub. B’H.

Whose Life is it Anyway?

Wine and cheese, yes please.

Babka and decaf sure.

Stoli and pretzel splits – now you got us going.

We think we’re going to like this.

We’ll stick around for more.

Tennis and golf and canasta and mah jongg.

We’ll sit at tables and think -we could get along.

A bagel, a schmear.

Some sushi and sake.

We’re on a roll.

Maybe knock hockey.

Wiser by choice.

A flu shot indeed.

A trip to the Sawgrass outlets- a new handbag agreed.

Are we living the dream?

As we binge watch and stream.

Shuffle board and beach passes.

Tuna from Bagel Works.

Up early for Pilates, keep moving good bye kinks, shifting quirks.

Water aerobics and a stretch class or two.

Whoever thought we’d splash on Canoe.

Non-sequiturs strong.

Our parents lives we’re living.

We have no more words, as we are much more forgiving.

Ok, now let’s get going.

We need to go online.

They are taking reservations a month in advance.

Don’t want to miss the early birds while we have the chance.

Vayismir- Could be good!

Game of Bones!

Game of Bones

Don’t fall the docs all tell us.

Let caution lead the way.

A broken bone
incurs,

Conversations with more to say.

There is no easy fix.

No bandaid lined with salve.

Wearing sensible shoes,

You thought you’d never have.

The bones are the main structure.

From which we dance and play.

The years of “double dutching” so very far away.

So you fix the carpal tunnel.

A slice of life returned.

You can shuffle up the cards.

Feel your finger if it’s burned.

With the femur and the tibia and the humerus intact.

A quick walk around the block.

Once our sprint around the track.

One foot proceeds the other,

Add caution to the mix.

Enjoy this beautiful Sunday.

Leave nothing left to fix.

Boca -the sixth borough of New York.

A chip with a schtickl of cheese,
a dollop of sour cream onion dip, yes please.
Come sip a glass of an 8 ounce pour, a vodka chilled, an olive filled. 

A flat bread a.k.a. bread and cheese -is quite a popular fad. Topped with a variety of veggies and herbs could be good- what could be bad?

So when shifting gears in a community unknown, there is an overwhelming push not to feel alone.

We sign up for some courses, grab a burger at the bar.
Fitting into a groove and playing a card game couldn’t be too far.

We sign up for Pilates, practice long and straight with our eye on the ball.

A real who knew as we are waiting -for that “come join us for a dinner “call.

We need a fourth for canasta, our mj game needs one more.

We grab our card and mojo and dash quickly out the door.

A brand new group of people, a daunting part of life.

With popularity throughout a lifetime and now another slice.

So we set the alarm for 7:00.
Grab our gear to play 9 holes.

They need a 5th for mah jongg, our calling could be close.

As we recalibrate priorities and add grateful to the mix.

Woke up and smelled the coffee, refilled our bag of tricks.

Flipped our myopic vision.
A game is just a game.
Yet all in all it’s social.
Acceptance leads the way.
We hope to be included cause we are here to stay.